Dear 9 year old

You should really try not to get caught up in everything that happens at this age. As bad as you think it is now, middle and high school will only get worse. If there is drama, stay out of it, it's most likely about things that won't matter in the long run, or even the next day. Don't avoid hanging out with people who aren't necessarily your "best friends" because you never know how your friend groups will change. You might need someone there for you in the future if your friends find other people to hang out with. Don't get in stupid fights with people who aren't worth it, because it won't do you any good. At this age you're probably excited, and nervous about middle school approaching, but just enjoy lower school while you can, it doesn't last forever.